It’s really interesting to see kids go after what they want. They go all out when they have a strong desire for something!
This recently happened with my daughter’s 11 birthday. She wanted a bunny. When I stepped back to take a look at how it all happened, and thought about things I’ve manifested in my own life, there are definitely some clear cut steps – more like a formula.
1 – She had a BURNING desire!
To the point of being obsessed! I mean CRAZY obsessed! She would talk about it non stop, no matter how many times we said NO, she didn’t care. She was literally like a broken record. She talked about it and thought about it from morning till night and then even dreamt about it! I’m not going to lie – she was making us NUTS!!!
2- She BELIEVED with all her might that it was possible.
She kept saying over and over again that we were going to get her a bunny for her birthday. Mind you – we are NOT big pet people – especially ones with fur! Eeeek! We have goldfish and that was about as much as we could handle. I had a guinea pig as a kid and learned my lesson so I thought there was NO WAY I would let them have a bunny or anything else furry for that matter. But she kept at it. She told us how she envisioned her birthday weekend. Saturday we’d go to the pet store to get all the supplies and then Sunday on her actual birthday we would go and pick out the bunny. She relived this scene over and over. again in her head. Visualizing in great detail about how it was going to FEEL when she got the bunny.
3 – She took ACTION
This girl did everything in her power and kept acting AS IF. She took INSPIRED ACTION daily! She researched online the different types of breeds and picked the exact one she wanted. She researched about what you needed as far as housing and food, the best type of food, and how to care for a bunny. She made us take her on trips to the pet store with her pad and pen so she could write down everything she needed along with the associated costs. She even found a breeder on Instagram in NJ – only a half hour away with the exact bunnies that she wanted. She even did a presentation for us – with visuals entitled Why I should Have a Bunny. Talk about A+ for effort!
She was TENACIOUS and UNSTOPPABLE – 2 definite keys to manifesting your desires!
After a while, we started feeding into her vision and one day I actually found myself going on Instagram to look for the breeder! What?!? Then I was texting her! What was happening to me?!? Things were lining up and there were going to be bunnies available on the day of my daughter’s birthday! Her vision was coming to fruition!
We surprised her on the morning of her birthday and told her she was getting a bunny! She was so excited!!!
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